A Letter from God

A letter from God to every future husband :

"The woman you have by your side , with the wedding dress, it’s mine. I have created her. I’ve always loved her ; even before you and even more than you I have big plans for her. You’ll take her from Me and become responsible.

When you met her you found her beautiful and you felt in love. Its me that shaped her beauty, it’s me to put inside her tenderness and love, is my wisdom that formed her sensitivity and her intelligence and all the fine qualities that you are finding in her.”

You’ll have to commit yourself to respond to her needs. As her man you will be the one after Me she is devoted and she entrust to feel secure and safe. You will realize she needs many things: she need an home, dresses, serenity, joy, mental balance, affection and tenderness, pleasure and fun, human presence and dialogue, family relationships and many other things.

But you have to realize that above all she needs me, and eveything that helps and encourages this encounter with Me: peace of heart, purity of spirit, prayer, the Book, forgiveness, hope and trust in Me.

Let’s make a pact between us: we love her both. I love her since always. You’ve started to love her since some years. I am the One who put in your heart the love for her. I entrusted her heart to someone who could take care of her. And that one is you.

It was the most beautiful way to say: “Here we are, I’ll trust you “, and so you could enjoy her beauty and her qualities. But be careful: when you say “I promise to be faithful to you, to love you and respect you for the life”, you will answer me. We will be in two to love her.

But we have to clear this: It is not possible you love her in a way and I love her in another. You need to have a love for her like Mine, and you should wish for her the same things that I desire. You can not think of anything more beautiful and joyful for her.

If you love her seriously I’ll figure out slowly which is the way I love her and how you should love her.

I realize that I’m asking a lot. You thought this woman was all and only yours, and now you have the impression to answer me. But no. I’m not your rival in love. On the contrary, am the one who helps you to love her godly.

I will never leave you alone in this task. I will always be with you, and make you the instrument of my love, my tenderness; I will continue to love my creature, which has become your wife. I will love her through your gestures of love, attention, commitment, forgiveness, devotion. In a word: I will make you able to love her as I love her, because I will give you a new force of love which is my own love.

If you love her in this way, your marriage will become like a fortress that the storms of life will never be able to break down. A love built on my Path is like a house built on the rock: no affair will destroy it.

Today fews believe in the true love, the one that lasts forever, and few offer their whole life to their beloved. Now people search more emotions than commitment. But emotions born and die soon, leaving only emptiness and longing.

If you will know how to love her for My sake, with a loyalty that never fails, you will become like the city on the mountain. You will be a hope for all the others , because everyone will see that love is a thing possible. “

Recently, i found many posts concerning about marriage , but somehow i wanted to share this one from this link. A lot of my friends worried about their future and of course this one is one of their concern. Of course I want to get married too, but I think i will take my time slowly :). Now i know, there are so many things i didn't know and much more things to learn. At first, I think i could only be happy with certain person and God showed me that there is a merit in "what you want doesn't always be what you needed" prases. At first, I think that it is okay to compromise with your significant others' way of seeing religion, it is okay to put your religion in the second place. Now i know, what really matter is that two people in marriage have to get the same way and priciple concerning their religion.

It is true that most of women would like to be with someone who can make them feel comfort, personalities often be the primary prequisite before deciding someone to be your partner. But as time goes by, I think that it is a must to put their act and principle about religion in the first place. Put Allah first, and you will never be last. His act towards Allah will reflect his acts towards you :'). and for my last word, now I believe that Allah actually will never make us wait, except it is verily best for us to wait.